His home is my home is OUR home
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I think I may be moving too fast with Mr. Man but I don�t want to slow down. We nervously and excitedly have agreed to move in together. We have been talking about it for a while now, going back and forth on what we should do. We already spend oodles of time together � at least 4 out of 7 night. The three days we are not together is when he has his daughter. A year ago, I would have never even dreamed of moving in with a man. I still am not totally crazy about the idea but I like the benefits of a reduced rent and having some one home to share my day with. My biggest obstacle is going to be getting over my love of living by myself and having my very precious ME time. Now I will have to share that time with Mr. Man and his daughter. And what�s going to happen on those days when I don�t want to be bothered with anyone? Or those days that Mr. Man pisses me off? I have learned (the hard way) that retail therapy may be therapeutic but not the best idea for a habitually broke Diva such as myself. After years of roommates, I have learned the art of living with others. I�m not perfect roommate but I am much better at it now than I was 6 years ago. The only difference is Mr. Man will be more than just a roommate. We will be sharing more than just a house; we will be sharing our lives. Of course I am beyond nervous and scared about this huge transition. I talked to my Mom about it for a long time last night. She has no problem with me moving in with Mr. Man. Her biggest concern for me is to avoid at all cost popping up pregnant before I get married. I reassured her that She has NOTHING to worry about. My kids are long ways into the future. After the reassurance from my Mom I started to get a little more excited about moving in with Mr. Man. I knew my Mom would not have a problem with it but hearing her confirm it was a big relief. Most of my family is not very judgmental, although we are known as the modern day Huxtables. The one person that I may hear a few words from is my saved and sanctified Sister. Although she has lived with numerous boyfriends in her day, she is almost the complete opposite now then she was 10 years ago. She may remind me that I will be living in sin by living with a man�and I will in turn alleviate her fears by letting her know that not much will change then and ask her to pray for my soul. Mr. Man and I talked for a long time last night about the moving arrangements. What I will keep, what I will have to part with and how we are going to make room in his small closet for ALL of our stuff. He told me he has already started making room for me :) . Originally I was planning on waiting until mid-July to move. I have a weeklong work camping trip in the beginning of July and wanted to wait until after the trip to move. Mr. Man and my Mom have talked me into moving by the end of THIS month. That gives me only 3 weeks to pack up my apartment and move into Mr. Man�s house. Looks like the move is on! For only $3.99 you can have one all to yourself. |
9:38 a.m. || June 09, 2005 |
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